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10 Ways to Build PARTNERSHIP

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Cleaning out your office is good for the soul! There is often a rediscovery of thinking that at the time might have been more of a hunch than a conviction. When you look back with more living, working, learning and achieving, you recognize humbly that we are all given everything we need to know if we just take time to think, question and listen to what lies within. One of these moments of rediscovery came to me recently with my documented views on building a partnership. I found my original list. It was later published in my book Breakthrough!

Creating and sustaining an exceptional partnership, whether it be in business or in your personal life, is really much the same. As we watch the most powerful leaders in the world struggle with getting along and building lasting peace, I realize this same timeless knowledge applies --- it is knowledge planted in each of us. Getting along --- being good partners or good neighbors is not really so complex. It just takes mutual interest, trust and respect for others ---- and a continuous thoughtfulness about each other.

These 10 Ways to Build a Partnership today, in reflection, have taken on new meaning and a strong conviction. I share them with you.

10 Ways to Build a Partnership

  1. Build a shared vision.
  2. Listen to the person/organization.
  3. Seek understanding; repeat what you have heard; mutually agree.
  4. Understand what's important to the person/organization.
  5. Share yourself honestly and openly; people/organizations want to know you.
  6. Do what you say you will do. Live your commitment. Be reliable.
  7. Demonstrate truth and mutual respect in all actions.
  8. Re-evaluate direction regularly together.
    What's going well. What isn't. What will you do about it.
  9. Deliver excellence in every contribution. It speaks for itself.
  10. Always focus on what's right to do, rather than what's planned.

What would you add to this from you experience?

What else would make the list more complete?

Warm regards to all,

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
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September 13, 2009 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Weblogs, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

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WOMEN: Leadership and Our Words

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Join me on TUESDAY, September 9, 2008 for my monthly online virtual dialogue. Special Guest: Emily Duncan, former VP, Culture & Diversity, Hewlett Packard. No charge. Register here (allow a few seconds for the link to open). Learn more here.


Right now, the world could use a little feminine charm and intuitive insight. Anthropologist, Dr. Helen Fisher told, "The strongest pressure in the world can be friendly pressure," wrote Lester Pearson, former prime minister of Canada. Women know it. ...they use their innate talents to unite behind common causes." In almost any direction, there are common causes needing our leadership in our organizations, communities, cities, nations, the world...and on the homefront.

I would also love to see women bring this kind of charm and intuitive insight to our politics, wouldn't you? One observation is that it seems that our day-to-day existence has become so filled with violence in so many parts of our lives that "red meat," mockery, lies, and mean-spirited sarcasm have become commonplace --- acceptable. It represents a kind of violence in our words and it gets our cheers . It makes me sad. I think this reality is a challenge to women as leaders --- a challenge to us to call upon something bigger, deeper, more moving from within. The power within can result in wide sweeping influence.

The issues of the people have always been the same, it starts with each of us as Confucius shared thousands of years ago:

If there is righteousness in
the heart there will be
beauty in the character.
If there be beauty in the
character, there will be
harmony in the house.
If there is harmony in the
home, there will be order in
the nation. When there is
order in the nation, there
will be peace in the world.

Confucius
(551-479 BC)

Yogananda also spoke about this truth in his writing about The Beautitudes "...the real peacemakers generate peace from their practice of daily meditation." He shares that as we experience peace in ourselves, we bring to our homes, to our neighborhoods, to our nations. "Anyone who brings peace to an inharmonious family has established God there." We could use this every where in our world.

This kind of leadership is not about winning at all costs. It is also not about mocking or creating disharmony, or dividing people. It is about us working on every level --- men and women working together for the good of all. This is our time to be a strong voice of leadership wherever we have an opportunity to spread the seeds of peace in our lives and work.

What contribution will you make?

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Author and founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the Lead

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September 05, 2008 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Religion, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (1) | TrackBack (0)

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WOMEN: LEADERSHIP and Our MOTHERING GIFTS

EleanorbysallgreenTRIBUTE TO THE MOTHER IN US ALL
"Furnish an example, stop preaching, stop shielding, don't prevent self-reliance and initiative, allow your children to develop along their own lines."
Eleanor Roosevelt 

About the painting: The painting is one of seven leaders I have across the wall above my desk. She looks over me as I work. Her leadership and motherhood of a nation and the world a shining example for us all. Painting by San Francisco artist, mother and grandmother, Sally K. Green.

I am a mother and grateful for gift of knowing its multi-faceted experiences in a lifetime. I have a beautiful daughter and granddaughter. I am so proud of them. It is so rewarding and meaningful to see each of them allowing their mothering gifts to shine in many ways as young women. I've learned over time that motherhood is not just about having children. Motherhood's essence lies within the nature of all women. We are never robbed of its opportunity and responsibility, only by the limitations of our thinking. A woman's life is full of chances to use her mothering gifts. I believe the world would be better for it if we all were mindful of the unique calling each of us has to be a mother in our lives in our own right. Our calling might be with a child of our own or someone else's child or a child in the distance. Our calling may show up in different ways ---- nurturing animals; leading, guiding and mentoring people looking to us for leadership in our work or community, using our caring touch and passion to be stewards of the environment or the care for our planet. Mothering's great purpose may surface in seemingly unrelated endeavors, like shepherding a project in our work or in our community. What we don't always see, or maybe need to see, is the significance of our important deeds and work and their sometimes sweeping influence on a life, on a neighborhood, on a country, on our world.

Motherhood for some is a courageous calling. As I write this, I think of the women in Africa, raising 12 and 13 children, some in these new mothers in teens and twenties themselves or older women called to rise up a again for the sake of many, because they hear their call in the tragedy of aids. Motherhood is sometimes in our inventive minds, nurturing and preserving for the good of others, as it was for Nwakego, a young mother bringing the Igbo tradition of music to the children of the world. Motherhood is most often in the heart of the giver. "It is not what we do. It is the love we put into the doing." --- Mother Teresa.

Nurturing, loving and caring --- mothering at its best --- is needed everywhere in this life, especially at this time in human history with wars, destruction and tragedy in so many directions --- and for each of us, our unique motherhood purpose may be very different than someone else. For some of us, it may not be having a baby at all. I've known many women who have contributed their mothering gifts in ways we couldn't or wouldn't have wanted to miss, some famous and some quietly who remain nameless to the world.

I heard Her Majesty Queen Noor of Jordon tell a story about the Prophet Mohammad (upon him peace), which speaks to the significance of our important role as women. She told that when asked who the most important person was, The Prophet said, "Your Mother." When asked who was the second most important person, he said, "Your Mother." When asked who was the third most important person, he said, "Your Mother." When asked who was the fourth most important person, he said, "Your Father."

What is your unique calling to use your MOTHERING GIFTS?
How will you share them with the world around you?

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the Lead

May 11, 2008 in Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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WOMEN: Taking a Courageous Stand

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Occasionally, someone comes along with a show of courage to stand up and speak up for what they believe in. Sharon Olds, known as one of the most gifted and widely read poets of our time, did just that as she searched her conscience.

Sharon Olds received an invitation from First Lady Laura Bush to attend, present and read poetry at the pretigious National Book Festival, including attending a dinner at the Library of Congress or breakfast at the White House. An invitation many could not resist. But Sharon's truth obviously had a more compelling call for her. Below is her response. Be sure to read the ending to experience to fully experience her restrained, chilling eloquence:

Open Letter from the poet, Sharon Olds to Laura Bush
declining the invitation to read and speak at the National Book Critics
Circle Award in Washington, DC.

___________________________________________________

Laura Bush
First Lady, The White House

Dear Mrs. Bush,

I am writing to let you know why I am not able to accept your kind
invitation to give a presentation at the National Book Festival on
September 24, or to attend your dinner at the Library of Congress or
the breakfast at the White House.

In one way, it's a very appealing invitation. The idea of speaking at
a festival attended by 85,000 people is inspiring! The possibility of
finding new readers is exciting for a poet in personal terms, and in
terms of the desire that poetry serve its constituents--all of us who
need the pleasure, and the inner and outer news, it delivers.

And the concept of a community of readers and writers has long been
dear to my heart. As a professor of creative writing in the graduate
school of a major university, I have had the chance to be a part of
some magnificent outreach writing workshops in which our students have
become teachers. Over the years, they have taught in a variety of
settings: a women's prison, several New York City public high schools,
an oncology ward for children.

Our initial program, at a 900-bed state hospital for the severely
physically challenged, has been running now for twenty years, creating
along the way lasting friendships between young MFA candidates and
their students - long-term residents at the hospital who, in their
humor, courage and wisdom, become our teachers.

When you have witnessed someone non-speaking and almost nonmoving
spell out, with a toe, on a big plastic alphabet chart, letter by
letter, his new poem, you have experienced, close up, the passion and
essentialness of writing.

When you have held up a small cardboard alphabet card for a writer who
is completely non-speaking and nonmoving (except for the eyes), and
pointed first to the A, then the B, then C, then D, until you get to
the first letter of the first word of the first line of the poem she
has been composing in her head all week, and she lifts her eyes when
that letter is touched to say yes, you feel with a fresh immediacy the
human drive for creation, self-expression, accuracy, honesty and wit -
and the importance of writing, which celebrates the value of each
person's unique story and song.

So the prospect of a festival of books seemed wonderful to me. I
thought of the opportunity to talk about how to start up an outreach
program. I thought of the chance to sell some books, sign some books
and meet some of the citizens of Washington, DC. I thought that I could
try to find a way, even as your guest, with respect, to speak about my
deep feeling that we should not have invaded Iraq, and to declare my
belief that the wish to invade another culture and another country -
with the resultant loss of life and limb for our brave soldiers, and
for the noncombatants in their home terrain - did not come out of our
democracy but was instead a decision made "at the top" and forced on
the people by distorted language, and by untruths. I hoped to express
the fear that we have begun to live in the shadows of tyranny and
religious chauvinism - the opposites of the liberty, tolerance and
diversity our nation aspires to.

I tried to see my way clear to attend the festival in order to bear
witness - as an American who loves her country and its principles and
its writing - against this undeclared and devastating war.

But I could not face the idea of breaking bread with you. I knew that
if I sat down to eat with you, it would feel to me as if I were
condoning what I see to be the wild, highhanded actions of the Bush
Administration.

What kept coming to the fore of my mind was that I would be taking
food from the hand of the First Lady who represents the Administration
that unleashed this war and that wills its continuation, even to the
extent of permitting "extraordinary rendition": flying people to other
countries where they will be tortured for us.

So many Americans who had felt pride in our country now feel anguish
and shame, for the current regime of blood, wounds and fire. I thought
of the clean linens at your table, the shining knives and the flames of
the candles, and I could not stomach it.

Sincerely,

SHARON OLDS

_______________________________________

When have you been so courageous? I leave you asking myself the same question.

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the LEAD

August 21, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (2) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: MEN vs. WOMEN as LEADERS? Our Contribution

Circlepinkoff_3Maureen's recent post , 1000 Strong, got me thinking about women's important role at this time in history. On some days, the world seems to be spiraling out of control and the men leading the way appear to be missing the mark substantially in their effectiveness in bringing about peace and harmony in the world.

Would women leaders go about things differently?

According to Helen Fisher, Research Professor and member of the Center for Human Evolutionary Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University and noted author of The First Sex: The Natural Talents of Women and How They are Changing the World men approach things very differently:
"Men tend to place to place themselves in a hierarchy; then they jockey for position. Men are more wiling to endure exhausting workloads to attain rank. They more regularly sacrifice this health, safety and precious time with family and friends to win status, money and prestige. Men and women exhibit no difference in what psychologists call "internal competitiveness," the desire to meet personal goals and display excellence. But men score much higher in "external competitiveness," the willingness to elbow others aside to get ahead.

Women are, on average, more interested in cooperation, harmony, and connections---a network of support.  Women cast themselves in a web of friendships; they make lateral contacts with others, and they form cliques. Then women work to keep these ties intact. Women can be determined and clever at climbing the social or corporate ladder. But when they do achieve high rank, they more regularly downplay their authority. Fewer women are interested in power for power's sake."
Hmmmm! These differences seem to offer new hope for our troubled world. Helen Fisher notes: "...leaders like Indira Gandhi and Margaret Thatcher illustrate that women can be as decisive and tough-minded as men. However, most women in power will probably be less likely than men to resort to military action to settle disputes. They may be more inclined to agree with Winston Churchill. Once in a conciliatory mood he once said,

"To jaw-jaw is always better than to war-war."

The door is open for women. This is a time in history that offers us opportunities to use our innate feminine ways for healing and reconciliation. It can start in our own neighborhoods and reach out around the world, leaving its healing influence to bring harmony and peace to the world.

What contribution will you make?


A while back, Maureen and I had the honor of doing a 3-part audio interview with Helen Fisher. She joined us for a intimate talk about the emerging leadership roles for women and women’s impact on 21st century business, sex and family life ... and more. Listen in now

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the LEAD

August 15, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: War and Peace in Simple Pleasures

Butterfly_2We've had so much violence in the world this year. It numbs the soul. A while back a little book came in my mail called Bits and Pieces...the magazine that motivates the world. I haven't seen one of these little booklets for years, but it was fun to receive. It is always full of quotes and stories of inspiration. Funny, I needed one of its messages badly in a week of exhausting demands. I share it with you...

THE VALUE OF SIMPLE PLEASURES
Eleven-year-old Zlata Filipovic, like so many girls her age, kept a diary in 1991."We gave ourselves a treat today," she wrote one July day. "We picked the cherries off the tree in the yeard and ate them all up. We had watched it blossom and its small green fruits slowly turn red and now here we were eating them. Oh, you're a wonderful cherry tree!"

Zlata's words read like any young girls's whimsical musings. But this innocent summer activity held a much deeper meaning: Zlata wrote the diary entry in the midst of war in her hometown of Sarajevo. "I miss fruit a lot," she continued. "In these days of war in Sarajevo, there is no basic food or any of the other things a person needs, and there is no fruit. But now, I can say that I ate myself silly on cherries."

That simple pleasure brought tremendous joy to a girl who witnessed brutality daily. Simple pleasures can do that if we take the time to appreciate what the moment offers.

Adapted from Zlata's Diary
by Bits and Pieces
Zlata Filipovic
Viking Press

What simple pleasures can you take in today that will help your see the beauty and gift of another day no matter where you may be?

What blessing has come your way today?

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the Lead

May 03, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: Moving from AGGRESSION to HEALING

Heart2With the tragedies we've experienced across the world, it is clear that our neighborhoods, communities, countries and the world are in bad need of HEALING. Women have long been recognized for their healing nature. Helen Fisher, anthropologist at Rutgers University and author of THE FIRST SEX: The Natural Talents of Women and How They Are Changing the World, who I mentioned in a my previous post on women looking inside to examine ourselves, also tells us that women bring innate talents to our jobs and lives, including a natural emotional expressivity, empathy, a tendency to nurture and a capacity for patience.

In a world that has become so broadly driven by more and more aggression, Helen Fisher again tells us in her book some interesting facts. One that we witness is that men continue to be more violent than women in places culturally different as Botswana, Brazil, Canada, India, Kenya, Mexico, Scotland and the Democratic Republic of the Congo (formerly Zaire). Based what we've all witnessed since Helen wrote the book, I would have to add the United States, UK, Iraq, Iran, Nigeria, just to name a few hot spots of violence.

Helen as also affirms that nowhere in the world are women as physically aggressive as men. However, she does point out we are far from innocent --- we can be catty, demeaning, bitter and abusive to one another's face and slanderous behind each other's backs, but few of us are prone to physical attacks. Helen goes on to state that "some scientists have argued that women and females of other primate species are just as aggressive as males, they just express it differently." This is where I must say I find my thinking...

We are all capable of dishonoring one another, aren't we?
...and we have a wide range of ways to go about it.

SO WHAT'S OUR OPPORTUNITY AS WOMEN?
Knowing we have the capacity to be either aggressive or healing, I see that women have a tremendous opportunity to heal the world that today is so inflamed with violence in every corner --- not just wars and rumors of wars, but it has permeated every aspect of our daily lives. Check out the listings for your local theater, look online at the news, look closely at the computer games your children are playing, count how many TV programs are full of violence each day or search Google for "violence" and you'll surely get a heightened glimpse at how we have desensitized ourselves and allowed a real lust for violent behavior, greed and aggression toward one another to be seductive in our lives---so much so, most of us hardly notice anymore.

There were three specific things that have served as wake-up calls for me. 1). The other night I watched a trailer for a new animated movie about fast food. Even in this movie rated PG Comedy, violent behavior is a core element of the film --- shooting, beating, smashing. 2) Recently, I saw a brief mention of the popularity of a Christian video game that is "selling like hotcakes." It has soldiers kneeling to pray before they go to out to shoot, kill, maim, and blow-up people and their homes and cities. I found myself asking, Who is it that Jesus would ask us to kill or bomb? 3.) Great sages like Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. told us that violence begets violence. We certainly are seeing the manifestation of this truth. Meanwhile, the most powerful leaders of the world are thriving on AGGRESSION and VIOLENCE right now --- killing thousands and thousands, turned millions of deaths, injured and displaced --- while the profiteers line their pockets and most of us sit helplessly watching or ignoring.

IGNITING THE POWER OF OUR HEALING TRAITS
To me the opportunity for us as women is for us to ignite the positive influence of our healing traits, using them wherever we go, leaving a positive footprint with each step we take, each room we enter, each occasion we attend; touching each place with our healing blessing of peace. In a reading from DailyOM online, they wrote about this idea of blessing space whenever we go:

"Physical space acts like a sponge, absorbing the radiant of all who pass through it. When you bless a room or an entire building, you leave a powerful message of love and light for all those who will come after you....Your affirmative energy footprint will help brighten your day as you contemplate your blessing's future impact on siblings in humanity and your environment."

Imagine the power of our collective work in this simple way. If each woman around the world could bless the space where they walked and fill it full of healing energy. There would be millions and millions of meaningful moments of good every day.

Are you willing to try an experiment?
Commit to at least one healing blessing for your world each day this week.
Then see what influence you see.

I promise to do the same and report back...I hope you will too!
You can contact me by leaving a comment here (below) and I will write back to you.

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women in the Lead

April 20, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: WAR, PEACE and Our Role as VISIONARIES

WorldIt seems in the first few months of this year, we've seen so much more destruction and disappointment throughout the world and this week we are entering still another year of
war in IRAQ, smoldering out of control.

These realities bring with it a powerful call-to-action for us all. I believe this is especially true for women as we have the natural talents for nuturing, healing, bringing people together. It means we have to hold and share visions of a different future than we see today. This doesn't mean you have to be in a big, pretigious position to do this. You can spread hope and seeing life anew right where you are through your words and through your example. There is much to learn from the great visionaries that can be applied to our lives at home, at work and in the community.

Some years ago, when I wrote Action Dialogues:Meaningful Conversations to Accelerate Change, Frances Hesselbein, a visionary leader and mentor... and recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom wrote a beautiful foreword for my book. It speaks about the way our words and actions can transform the workplace and our communities. I wanted to share it with you:

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Over thirty years ago, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. set an examle about the power of meaningful dialogue when he spoke of his dream on the steps of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C. It was a remarkable speech, but if you were there or have ever watched the footage of that day, with the vibrant faces and the response of those taking in his message, it is clear there was also a dialogue taking place. A dialogue with a deep sense of shared meaning between him and all the people there with him. His circle of influence continues to reach out to us today.

There is much we can learn from Dr. King's example that will help us respond to one of the most critical quesions in today's world, "How do we help people deal with their deepest differences?" In just a few minutes, with relatively few words, he spoke the truth. He asked everybody to examine their own behavior and make a pledge to continue to be part of change. Regardless of the struggle that came before and the distance left to travel, he marked the time as a beginning. He appealed to the goodness and dreams of all people. He brought us together with inclusive language that we could understand.

...In 1980, in Managing in Turbulent Times, Peter F. Drucker reminded us, "A time of turbulence is a dangerous time, but its greatest danger is a temptation to deny reality." It through honest, open dialogue followed with concrete actions that we will be able to move beyond the barriers we have built, consciously and unconsciously, around race, gender, equal access. The old answers and language do not fit the new questions and challenges we face in a world that must learn to understand, relate, communicate and work together in the 21st Century across all its boundaries for the good of every nation.

As we reshape the world as we have know it, this is a time of remarkable opportunity for innovation. The individual efforts of thousands of leaders, in millions of organizations, will begin to transform the vision into a new reality of the diverse and inclusive community.

Frances Hesselbein
Chairman of the Board of Governors
Leader-to-Leader Institute
(former The Peter F. Drucker Foundation)
Recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom

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In what ways can you use your natural talents to create a positive, hopeful, inclusive environment for those in your span of influence?

Remember, you can use your talents at work, at home and in your community. Every day we have opportunities to set an example. "Influence starts with us and ripples outward." -- Lao Tze. 

Welcome the unexpected.
Look for uncharted path that bears your name.
Lead the way!

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center
Home of Women of the Lead

March 18, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: Learning Little Things from Johnny Appleseed

World_5These are sobering times across the world.
My heart aches for the needless loss and anguish of so many.
A new and different path for mankind must be forged.
A new global consciousness among all people would be a big start. This is a time asking more of YOU and me.

Where do we begin?

How can we use our unique qualities as women to make a difference?

History can be a source of great courage for us all. Not just women's history, but looking at people who pioneered new ideas and also set an example that transcended gender and differences, truly pioneering new eras in time as we are left to do. People, who as Maureen suggested in her previous post, put the power of their minds to work on something they believed could make a difference.

I happened on an amazing read. It is a copy of the original story of the real Johnny Appleseed, an American pioneer hero, written in Harper's Magazine - November 1871.

I always thought Johnny Appleseed was just a funny man that planted apple trees and wore a funny tin hat. That's the story I remember being told when I was a little girl. After reading about his finest qualities, I'm sure you'll agree he was much more...

---- as a matter of conscience he never purchased a pair of shoes. When given a pair, he passed them off to a boy in a needy family moving westward who he felt needed them more.

---- he purchased animals that he saw were being abused and found them good homes.

---- he wore the tin pan he used to cook his meals as his hat, adding an innovative pasteboard visor to shield his eyes.

---- he was loved by moms, dads, grandma's, the Indians because of his kindness and interest in them.

---- he believed in eating only food from the ground and was a strenuous opponent to wasting it because it was a Gift.

---- he was well educated and took time to read to others in such a way that he created pictures for others to understand.

---- he respected all forms of life.

---- he was trusted by all...and courageously warned his neighbors of British and Indian attacks saving many lives with his prophetic message.

---- he gave his money away.

He lived a good life as a loving neighbor and friend.
When he was near death, it his recorded that his features were all aglow with a supernatural Light.

If we could just live our lives with a little more care for our neighbors and our world ---- a little more like a modern-day Johnny Appleseed, the world would be much different, don't you think?

The outcome of BIG INFLUENCING HAPPENINGS invariably hinges upon small, seemingly unimportant events and upon unassuming, perhaps little known people by the world's standards. Look around, it is not so much the little as the BIG things and so-called great people, who have driven our world into such a mess. Our future will be determined not so much by great events, as by the plain, everyday living of millions of people, whose names may not be lights. Women and men willing to be informed, stand-up, speak-up and live as if every action and behavior were a message and contribution to creating a better world than we know today.

With this in mind, as you move through your week, remember that the little things we do are significant, because frequently, it is the seemingly small things we do that make great things possible. With that realization, we then have to put the power of our minds together to believe we can make a difference.

Before we begin living to make the world better, each of us must first have faith in the possibility of a better world. What little things will you contribute?

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy
Founder, Global Dialogue Center

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January 29, 2007 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

WOMEN: Taking Personal Responsibility Our Own Way

Cross2pinkblk_14 I've been reading lately some sad reviews on the fact that women don't VOTE, especially young women. CNN has been running a piece today profiling a couple of hard-working women, saying that they just don't have time and it's really not going to change their lives one way or the other. I remember when I actually had this same attitude and belief --- and my life was so overwhelmed with work and family that I somehow just never made it the polls. Afterall, what good could my single vote do, especially when I was uninformed anyway? Even too busy to get informed at the time. IMAGINE THE IMPLICATIONS of such indifference, if all women took on this same attitude. If it isn't us, who is it that will take personal responsibility for our countries and our planet and the well-being for our children and families? So, extracting yourself isn't really just about you. It is about you + me + her + and her + and her. The future rests in our hands, collectively ... and perhaps individually.

CALL-TO-ACTION for WOMEN
At this time in history, there is almost a siren sounding call-to-action for WOMEN to step up and lead the way. It doesn't mean that you have to necessarily get heavily involved in partisan politics, but it does mean that you need to get informed and look at what YOU CAN DO right where you are. Each one of us has a contribution to make in our spans of influence --- what YOU CAN DO may be very different than what I can do, but together, when you add up all our individual changes in consciousness and even seemingly small actions, you have a whole lot of powerful things being done for the good of others, our nation, your nation and our planet ---- good that impacts the lives of others and maybe your own.

ARE YOU WILLING TO GIVE IT A TRY?

ARE YOU BE WILLING TO LISTEN and LEARN FROM OTHERS?

Recently, nine Berrett-Koehler authors came together to talk about PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY: It's role in creating a better world. It was then  produced to share with the world in an innovative audio/visual podcast. Why? I suppose it was in answer to the question about WHAT WE COULD DO to engage with others.

Here is an OVERVIEW:

The BK Currents Authors' Dialogue on PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY is an invitation to think, question, explore ideas and get involved right where you are. First, meet each of the authors. The dialogue is then seeded with diverse perspectives from John Perkins, Angeles Arrien and Alex Pattakos. A total of nine bestselling and award-winning authors explore these key questions in an Open Forum:

What does personal responsibility mean to you?
What will it take on a social, global and personal level to institute change?
What can we all contribute using our talent, our voices, our votes and our influence?
I want to personally invite you to listen in (the dialogue plays on WINDOWS MEDIA PLAYER). Our intent was not to get political --- but to over others a chance to think and question with us.

CLICK HERE to learn more and listen  (complimentary; no registration required)

As I think of how to close this off, I hear Rumi, the mystic Persian poet over 2000 years ago whispering his wisdom to all of us at a new time:

"...the world is reeling; its heart is sick
and you are one who can serve as an influence for good
...be with people. Lead the way. Be a teacher by example."
---- RUMI

With gratitude to each of you in our community...
IMAGINE WHAT WE COULD DO TOGETHER?

Debbe

Debbe Kennedy, founder
Global Dialogue Center, Home of Women in the LEAD

October 26, 2006 in Books, Current Affairs, Iraq War, Weblogs, Women's Development, Women's Leadership | Permalink | Comments (0) | TrackBack (0)

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