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Steve Nguyen

Debbe: Not sure if the comment I left yesterday got lost in the system so I'll post it again.

I enjoyed reading your blog post about differences, words, and deeds. I've always believed that many of the things we do as adults can and should be learned from children and the process by which we educate them.

When we talk about honoring each other's differences and watching our words and actions, I think that children are our best teachers. For instance, I contend that character education (teaching children how to be better, more honorable world citizens by treating one another with respect) is also a great way to teach adults and business leaders.

Imagine teaching character education as a business ethics course!

Here are six qualities/pillars of character that can be taught (http://charactercounts.org/sixpillars.html):

Trustworthiness
Be honest • Don’t deceive, cheat or steal • Be reliable — do what you say you’ll do • Have the courage to do the right thing • Build a good reputation • Be loyal — stand by your family, friends and country

Respect
Treat others with respect; follow the Golden Rule • Be tolerant of differences • Use good manners, not bad language • Be considerate of the feelings of others • Don’t threaten, hit or hurt anyone • Deal peacefully with anger, insults and disagreements

Responsibility
Do what you are supposed to do • Persevere: keep on trying! • Always do your best • Use self-control • Be self-disciplined • Think before you act — consider the consequences • Be accountable for your choices

Fairness
Play by the rules • Take turns and share • Be open-minded; listen to others • Don’t take advantage of others • Don’t blame others carelessly

Caring
Be kind • Be compassionate and show you care • Express gratitude • Forgive others • Help people in need

Citizenship
Do your share to make your school and community better • Cooperate • Get involved in community affairs • Stay informed; vote • Be a good neighbor • Obey laws and rules • Respect authority • Protect the environment

Taking any one of these, we can easily apply its lesson to our lives as adults and to our workplaces. For example, under "Respect", we have "Be tolerant of differences • Use good manners, not bad language • Be considerate of the feelings of others" and under "Responsibility", we learn to "Always do your best • Use self-control • Be self-disciplined • Think before you act — consider the consequences."

Somewhere along the way towards adulthood, we have forgotten these valuable lessons taught to us (hopefully) as children. I think it's important that we each reach deep within to learn again (or for the first time) these principles of humanity (compassion, decency, honor, respect, and citizenship).

Steve Nguyen

Debbe Kennedy

Steve,

This is a wonderful addition. I believe I was involved with Character Counts some years ago and I am most appreciative to add your perspective to my thinking. Thanks so much for a thoughtful response.

Debbe

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