The Meaning Difference

Reflections on MEANINGFUL VALUES

Some years ago, I wrote an article in the Journal for Quality and Participation called "Reflections of a (re)evolutionary."  It is interesting to look back on life and work to see where you were, what has changed , and also what has stayed the same.  In this article I wrote:

Time and experience certainly tend to influence what seems worth having and doing.  In my case, however, these influences have been tempered by the fact that I have maintained over my adult life a set of core values or principles to guide my thoughts and actions.  In effect, these values, which have manifested themselves in different ways over the years, comprise the foundation of my character and emanate from the essence of my very being--my soul, if you will.  It is as if my growth and learning have spiraled higher and higher over time above the very same point.  With the experience of being able to view oneself from a distance, I can now "see" more clearly the contours of my life's journey, with all of its zigs and zags, in some orderly fashion.

This said, my "worth ethic" has always centered on the notion of service, especially public service.  More than 20 years ago, I was committing to causes greater than myself.  To be of service to others, especially to those less fortunate than I, became a "calling";  and the opportunity to challenge the status quo, no matter how much conflict was involved, became a quest worth doing.  From participating in the anti-war effort with SDS [Students for A Democratic Society] during the Vietnam era to helping to fight the "war on poverty" in the inner cities and rural areas of America, my notion of "worthiness" revolved more around the "doing" or experiencing of something of value than it did the "having."  Driven by a core value in which self-fulfillment was always more important than material success, I found myself submerged deeply in what Professor Peter Vaill has termed the "permanent whitewater" of change.  Indeed, I eventually learned, oftentimes the hard way, that you can change without growing but you cannot grow without changing.

Since writing this piece, I recognize that the "permanent whitewater" of change has been ever present.  One reaffirming experience that has deepened the meaning of this earlier message, came when my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, was published. It started what has become a MEANING MINISTRY that is reaching out across the world, one meaning-full experience and opportunity at a time.  As I have written often here, it is a book based on the wisdom of my mentor and teacher, Dr. Viktor Frankl, world renown psychiatrist, holocaust survivor and author of the classic, Man's Search for Meaning. Again, I realize that much has changed in this discovery of deeper meaning and purpose in my life through my connection to his meaning-focused message and legacy, and much has stayed the same. Over the years, I have been able to reaffirm over and over again, like I wrote in the above-mentioned article, that my growth and learning have spiraled higher and higher over time above the very same point. From this vantage point, I believe that it is the authentic commitment to meaningful values and goals (i.e., will to meaning) that has enabled me to navigate, as well as discover the seeds of meaning within, the permanent whitewater of change around me. Who knows, perhaps this is what is meant by the notion of the "path to enlightenment!"

As I travel the world, carrying my message of meaning to and for others, I find myself reflecting upon and learning about my own life in meaningful ways as well. In Prisoners of Our Thoughts, I quote something from Viktor Frankl that is relevant to this very point: "I wish to stress that the true meaning of life is to be discovered in the world rather than within man or his own psyche, as though it were a closed system." [Page 25, Emphasis Added]  Put differently, there is a humanistic concept advanced in South Africa called "UBUNTU" in the Zulu language. UBUNTU can be translated roughly into English as "A person is only a person through other persons."  As I also write in Prisoners of Our Thoughts, UBUNTU is not about relationships per se; rather, it is about human-ness and how only human beings can truly establish the human-ness of others (that is, our human-ness can only be truly expressed as a "reflection" of others). Insofar as Viktor Frankl's humanistic (and existential) philosophy is concerned, we must be able to extend beyond ourselves (Principle #7) so that we can fulfill or realize more of ourselves. 

Reflecting on my article in the Journal for Quality and Participation, this is what I meant by having a "set of core values or principles to guide my thoughts and actions."  In the midst of the permanent whitewater that surrounds us all, ultimately, it is our will to meaning that guides us through the labyrinth of life and enables our growth and learning to light the way.  And while this may not appear to be a "revolutionary" concept, because it happens continuously over our life times, it is "(re)evolutionary!"

So, now, ask yourself...
As you walk the labyrinth that is your life, what set of core values or principles guide your thoughts and actions?  Furthermore, how are you applying the concept of UBUNTU so that you can fulfill and realize more of yourself?

All the best,
Alex

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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Celebrating a Life of MEANING

I recently returned from another European trip--this time to England and Germany.  In short, it was a very wonderful, productive, and, once again, meaningful experience.  Indeed, having the opportunity to share the Principles in my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, with people around the world can be nothing but wonderful, productive, and meaningful!

News that rocked the foundation of my being
When I returned to my home town of Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA, I was struck with news that, quite frankly, rocked me at the very foundation of my being and placed me in a situation where I had to "walk the talk." 

It was the morning after my late night arrival when I learned that a friend of mine in Santa Fe had been killed in a hit and run accident by a drunk driver! Reading about this tragedy in the local newspaper and seeing my friend, Sara's photo on the front page with a caption confirming that she was the victim was, at best, a surreal experience for me. My first reaction was to cry in disbelief. This was followed by a wave of anger driven by the larger social problem and its dire consequences. Then, I felt an emptiness in the pit in my stomach as I recalled the last time that I had seen Sara in town, which had not been that long ago. And because her life partner is also a friend, the agony of the moment seemed to get worse as I reflected on his plight and that of their respective families. 

The next couple of days were filled with feelings of sorrow and compassion, not only for Sara and her immediate family, but also for all of those who had effectively become the "collateral damage" of this unfortunate tragedy, including the community of Santa Fe. It was as if the entire community (Santa Fe means "Holy Faith") had been put to the test, since Sara had been a lifelong resident, was a well-known business entrepreneur, and had established a credible reputation as a social activist, especially in regards to environmental concerns which are core to the spirit of Santa Fe. 

A week of deep self-reflection
The week that followed was also a time of deep self-reflection, both individually and collectively.  Among other things, there was a celebratory gathering in Sara's honor in the Santa Fe National Forest, a place that she held dear and for which she had become one of its most defiant protectors. In a weird way, I guess that I was fortunate to be in town at the time of this gathering, so was able to be present among Sara's family and "community" of friends and kindred spirits. The gathering proved to be a true celebration of Sara's life and legacy as told through many "stories" of her meaning-full approach to living.

To be sure, Sara's life was tragically cut short. Her loss will be felt by those who were fortunate to have been touched by her grace, and she will be missed. I am blessed for being one of those who will feel her loss and who will miss her. You see, Sara (and her partner) was very familiar with my meaning-centered work and my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts. Moreover, I would even say that she resonated with the Principles that I espouse and, more importantly, she practiced them naturally in her daily life. She lived her life with meaning and viewed life as being inherently meaningful. So, as I reflect upon her loss, I also see how her legacy of meaning can never be really lost. 

Practicing what I preach
Upon my return from Europe, I was faced with an opportunity to "walk the talk" and "practice what I preach" in real time.  Believe me, I found myself digging deep, in an existential sense, and relying at different times on all seven Principles that I describe in Prisoners of Our Thoughts as I struggled with Sara's death. It was not easy; it never is.  At the same time, I've gained an increased appreciation for the meaning of life's moments (Principle 3) and, because of Sara's living example, am now even more committed to a life of meaning and practicing what I preach.

Questions for you          
Have you ever felt a loss or tragedy similar to what I have described here?  How did you respond? 
What did you learn from the situation and, more importantly, how did you grow and develop from the experience? 

I would be interested to hear your thoughts and feelings on this matter.

All the best,
Alex

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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AN INCONCEIVABLE TRUTH: The Lost Generation of Palestine

I’m writing this post in Lisboa (Lisbon), Portugal, where I continue to share the meaning-centered message described in my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts.

Legend has it that the City of Lisboa was discovered by the Greek, Ulysses, and the ancient Castelo de São Jorge, which sits at the very top of the highest hill in Lisboa has a tower named after him.  The “Tower of Ulysses” houses the Periscope, an optical system invented by Leonardo Da Vinci in the 16th Century and the only one in Portugal, giving a 360 degree view of the City.  The oldest remains found here date back to the 6th Century BC, where evidence of the Phoenicians, Romans, and Moslems abound.

Taken from the Moors and absorbed into Portuguese territory in 1147, Lisboa was proclaimed capitol of the kingdom in 1252.  It became the first European trading port for importing merchandise from the newly-discovered Atlantic islands, the shores of Africa, the Americas and Asia, and became a site for the converging of these respective cultures and faith-based traditions.

As you can imagine, being here--in an environment where there is so much evidence of the rich history and convergence of diverse cultures and faiths--is truly enlightening and, yes, meaningful.  Such an experience, however, also serves to bring other aspects of the human condition into sharper focus, including shedding light on the “existential divide” that still casts its long shadow on life in the postmodern era.  It is as if one is able to look at life through Da Vinci’s Periscope from high atop the Tower of Ulysses!

In this regard, I was struck in a very profound way by an article that I read in the Times Digest (a publication service of The New York Times that is distributed to business travelers here), entitled “Palestinians Fear a Generation of Nihilists.”  The worried parents call them the lost generation of Palestine and “its most radical, most accepting of violence and most despairing.”  These are the children of the second intifada that began in 2000.  The article underscores that this generation is growing up in a territory riven by infighting, seared by violence, occupied by Israel, largely cut off from the world and segmented by barriers and checkpoints.  They are young people who have no hope in either the present or the future.  “We never see anything good in our lives,” exclaims one of the youth interviewed in the article.

Like my mentor, Dr. Viktor Frankl, I firmly believe that the primary intrinsic motivation of all human beings is the search for meaning.  Yet, by allowing societal conditions to exist (and persist) that result in a "generation of nihilists," we are creating much more than a manifestation of collateral damage or other contemporary political-speak.  By robbing people (in this case an entire generation of human beings) of their very human-ness, that is, their inherent capacity to search for meaning, civilized society is effectively plotting its own demise whether it "knows" it or not.  In my view, nihilism on such a broad scale is a lost cause, no matter what the original intent.  And insofar as the lost generation of Palestine is concerned, we all should pay heed to Jimmy Carter’s new book, Palestine: Peace Not Apartheid, and seek a peaceful, authentic resolution that will help to restore hope to the youth who's cry for meaning can be heard loud and clear in Lisboa and around the world.  And from my elevated perch on the Tower of Ulysses, I can see that we will only be able to find common ground by going to a higher ground.    

I would be interested to hear your thoughts and feelings on this matter.  Besides the current situation in Palestine...

What do you think about my argument that we can not afford to produce a "generation of nihilists?"  Do you agree?

All the best,
Alex

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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RETIRING RETIREMENT: Freedom, Independence and Meaning-FULL WORK

re-tire-ment (ri-tīr-ment) v.: 
withdrawal from one's position or occupation or from active working life

I remember a  Canadian campaign some years back that was called Freedom 55. It promised not only financial independence beginning at 55, but also the lure of freedom to do whatever you would want for the rest of your life. With the average life-span increasing for both men and women, I remember wondering what this kind of "freedom" would ultimately mean for such young retirees. What would they do with --- and for --- the rest of their lives in retirement?

When the first of America's 79 million baby boomers reach age 62 in 2008, it appears they are going to change the meaning of the word "retirement." Recent surveys by AARP demonstrate that most older workers --- nearly 70% --- want to continue working. They know what they want from work at this time in their lives. They put a high value on meaning-full work that keeps them actively engaged in life:

• 86% say that staying in the workforce keeps them healthy and active.
• Nearly 60% feel that their jobs contribute to society or help people.
• Less than one-third say they look forward to full retirement a great deal.

"Boomers are going to redefine what we think of as aging. We'll reject the term 'aging' or 'elderly.' Many boomers want less responsibility; they've done the management thing. They're looking for more meaningful work, to hone their skills, to still contribute — but to have flexible work options. ...When you go beyond the financial aspects, you see the issues of wanting to feel connected to the workplace and that there's still a lot more to be offered in skill, knowledge, and expertise..."
                     --- Deborah Russell, AARP director of economic security

This is still another validation that our search for meaning is not about only finding a higher purpose or a true calling as I share in my book. It's about finding meaning in every moment, every day. It's our personal responsibility to discover that meaning and it is clear that many "boomers" are taking this on as a personal mission.

I find this an exciting prospect at this time of turmoil in the world! Why? Because in my own experience, I've found that people who take the time to find meaning are happier---they're more joyful, more passionate, and more fulfilled. They are more resilient to the stresses of life. And, in effect, they become the "light" for others.

Regardless of your age, there is much to learn from this example of the ongoing search for meaning in our lives. Consider this question...

What are you doing in your life and work--and what are you doing (or intend to do) in your "retirement"--to discover meaning that will help you be more joyful, more passionate, more fulfilled, so you can be a light for others?

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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MEANING IN EDUCATION: No Person Left Behind

The search for meaning has been called a "megatrend" of the 21st century. This should not be surprising since the drive to look for and discover meaning in life, including our work life, is effectively built into our DNA--in fact, it helps to define our "human-ness."  It was the world-renown psychiatrist, Dr. Viktor Frankl, who argued that the search for meaning is the "primary intrinsic motivation of all human beings."  So, it's now time to ask ourselves: what are the implications of this meaning-centered megatrend for education? 

This is a question I’ve been thinking about myself as I prepare to do a keynote presentation at the Calgary City Teachers’ Convention Association in a few weeks.

In my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, written at Frankl's personal urging, it shows how, by discovering "The Meaning Difference," each and every one of us holds the keys to unlocking our inner mental prison. In other words, we do not have to be prisoners of our thoughts, if we do not want to be! Our common search for meaning can help turn life's challenges into beacons of hope, no matter what our personal circumstances are or where we work. When it comes to education, we must recognize that being "prisoners of our thoughts" adversely impacts our roles and responsibilities as teachers, students, staff, and parents in spite of our best intentions.

Viktor Frankl’s lessons affirm that by committing authentically to meaningful values and goals, both inside and outside of the classroom, educators at all levels will be able to realize their full potential as catalysts for continuous learning and development. It also is clear that it is teachers who must lead the way in the pursuit of meaning---not only by discovering the deeper meaning in their own work and personal lives---but also by inspiring others, especially students, to do the same.

Today we live in a world of many formidable challenges. At the same time, there is a call for hope and a cry for meaning that can be heard loud and clear. Only by meaningfully engaging students, parents, teachers, staff, and the community-at-large in the continuous learning and development process will we be able to turn hope into reality and co-create a better world for all.

In the ongoing Viktor Frankl Personal Responsibility Dialogue online at the Global Dialogue Center (see link below), people all over the world have been sharing their experiences and observations. Many of their stories demonstrate how each of us has something meaning-full to contribute. Below are two examples that illustrate how we can discover deeper meaning in education in ways that may not be so obvious --- one is a businessman's personal story of developing young entrepreneurs and the other is an observation someone made of a student’s innovative idea that is making a difference:

“While I am working to set up my own business, I’m also helping students learn entrepreneurial skills. We need more projects in schools that introduce students to entrepreneurial ideas and thinking at an earlier age then most of us learned. They need to learn how we all achieve more by working together.”

“I was touched by the actions of a high school student. When he realized that all the left over food was being thrown away by his lunchroom, he found a way for the food to be saved for hungry people in our community.”

As you can see, if we work together to co-create an environment where every student, parent, teacher, staff member and member of the community recognizes they have a meaning-full role to play in making the world a better place for all people, it will ensure no person is left behind.

In what ways are you seeing meaning in education emerge in new ways?

How do you think we can ensure no person is left behind?

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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WHAT MATTERS IN LIFE? The Search for Meaning

I received a meaningful comment from Joe Raasch in response to my message, Discovering the JOY in any season. I wanted to share both Joe's comment and my response to him with all of you. As we move into a new year, our exchange offers all of us an opportunity for a new level of discovery of deeper meaning in our lives and work. It also opens the way for a broader dialogue.

JOE RAASCH COMMENT...
Dr. Alex, I just finished a second read of your book. It is becoming clear to me that our society doesn't possess bad intention and not want to find meaning. We just forgot how. Much the same in our search for joy during the holiday season. I celebrate Christmas and see the extended commercialism that some try to use to get that joy. We want it, we just forgot how to find it.

MY RESPONSE TO JOE...
Dear Joe,
Thank you for letting me know that you've read my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, a second time!  And thanks for posting your insightful comment on my meaning blog.  I agree with you that our society doesn't "possess bad intention and not want to find meaning."  As you astutely point out, somewhere along our path we seem to forget how to realize our will to meaning.  And since you've read my book twice, I suspect that now you can see why it was written primarily as a practical, "how-to," guidebook on the search for meaning.  Indeed, I am blessed to have been able to stand on the shoulders of my mentor, Dr. Viktor Frankl, whose life and legacy will forever bring light to darkness by underscoring what really matters in life--the search for meaning.

Remembering "how" to do something, however, is not sufficient cause to bring about authentic and sustainable change.  We must first acknowledge and embrace the "why" of what we intend to accomplish, and this includes our "want to find meaning."  And it is our personal (and collective) responsibility to remember "why" the search for meaning is so important, much in the same way that it is our personal (and collective) responsibility to remember "why" the search for joy (and discovering the deeper "meaning" of joy) during the holiday season is so important. 

To be sure, in a world that is so fast-changing and increasingly complex, it is both more difficult to remember what really matters in life and easier to abdicate our personal responsibility for doing so.  We can always find something or someone else to "blame" for our circumstances and therefore rationalize our attitude or behavior, can't we?!  To truly look within ourselves  and to cut across the grain of something like "extended commercialism" are not especially easy, let alone desirable, paths to follow in the postmodern era even if we supposedly "know how." 

In the late 19th Century, the German psychologist, Dr. Hermann Ebbinghaus, a pioneer in the field of human memory (although studies of memory can be traced to the Greek poet, Simonides, in 477 BC), introduced what he called the "Law of the Forgetting Curve."  In effect, all human beings are prone to forget and unless they actively do something to alter the forgetting curve, the dual challenge of retention and recall quickly becomes formidable.  In fact, studies have demonstrated that the "average" person is bound to forget about 75% of whatever material is presented to her or him within the first 24 hours and over 90% over the course of only 30 days, unless something is done to retain the information in one's consciousness!  So, Joe, you can see that we all have our work cut out for us!  Whether we are seeking to alter the forgetting curve of "how" to find meaning and/or joy (during the holiday season or not), or we are looking to alter the forgetting curve of "why" we need to find meaning (and authentic joy) in our lives, the onus of responsibility falls again upon us.

We must more than "want" something in order not to forget about it.  In fact, if we really know what we "want," that is, we "know" the deeper meaning behind the intention, according to Dr. Frankl, we are more likely to achieve our intention by "forgetting" about it!  In Chapter 10 of my book, I try to illustrate how this logotherapeutic principle actually works.  Although it may seem counter-intuitive to some, our search for joy during the Holiday season--or at any other time in our lives--is not something that we can pursue; rather, it is something that ensues by "extending beyond oneself."  If this doesn't make sense, it may be time for a third reading of Prisoners of Our Thoughts!

Let me know what you think and thanks again for sharing!

What thoughts do you have to add to this dialogue?  Hope you let me know.

...and to all of you, Happy New Year!

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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Discovering the JOY in any season

As we look out around the world, there is a lot challenging us to discover the real joy in this season. Maybe for you, it is more personal with memories or realities that leave you feeling less than cheerful, but let's look closer at the possibilities.

In my book, I described it this way: Real cheerfulness is not have-a-nice-day artifice. It's a way of experiencing the present, no matter what the weight of the world or the weather. Cheerfulness celebrates the possibility of meaning around every corner. It buoys us up beyond our individual concerns and invites us and others around us to find something to be happy about. 

It is in the times that challenge us that we need one another's cheer. This is validated by the humanistic concept advanced in South Africa called Ubuntu that not only provides the foundation for African management but also is pertinent to our understanding of self-transcendence. The full expression in Zulu of this concept is UBUNTU NGUMUNTU NGABANTU, translated roughly into English as "A person is only a person through other persons." Importantly, Ubuntu is not about relationships per se; rather, it is about human-ness and how only human beings can establish the human-ness of others. The concept is congruent with Viktor Frankl's humanistic philosophy. I propose that it is because of Ubuntu (that is, our human-ness can only be truly expressed as a “reflection” of others), that self-transcendence occurs. In effect, we must be able to extend beyond ourselves so that we can fulfill or realize more of ourselves. 

The search for meaning in our lives takes us on paths large and small --- paths that sometime challenge us to reach out beyond ourselves to discover the joy in any season. When we go beyond ourselves --- whether in forgiveness, unselfishness, thoughtfulness, generosity and understanding toward others---we enter into the spiritual realm of meaning. By giving beyond ourselves, we make our own lives richer.

"...Life will give you back everything you have given to it.
Your life is not a coincidence. It's a reflection of you!"
--- The Echo

What can you do to move beyond yourself to reflect the joy of any season for others---so you become more yourself?

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY: What Life Expects From Us

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A FEW PERSONAL THOUGHTS TO CONSIDER...
Personal responsibility is a topic that resonates with me. I believe in it, do you? Reflecting back on my generation, when we were going through the anti-war movement at another time in history, there was a sense of social activism that was certainly pleasure-driven, but also carried with it a higher purpose. It wasn’t just John Lennon’s songs and lyrics that symbolized this time of great change. I think people really believed in it. Some years later, we seemed to go through a period where we became a lot more affluent and anesthetized to a lot of things that were going on around us and in the world. We lost touch. We closed our eyes. We exchanged our social activism with the ease of running on auto-pilot.

Today, we find ourselves in a time of great turmoil, deep divides, great need, war, destruction and life, in many ways, out of control. I find it a time that is calling out for its citizens to feel a sense of personal responsibility. It comes with an invitation to discover deeper meaning in our lives, giving instead of taking --- by engaging instead of shutting down. The stakes are high and it is time to move forward to rebuild our country, our families, our communities and our planet. We must wake up, get informed and get involved!

As I mention in my book, we are, by nature, creatures of habit. As we repeat our patterns of thought over and over again, we begin to believe that life just happens to us and this limits our potential. We become prisoners of our thoughts. Perhaps, this describes where many of us are at this moment, but this can be changed.

Recently, I had an opportunity to participate in the PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY dialogue referenced above with eight other Berrett-Koehler authors. It was not only meaning-FULL to be invited to seed the conversation, but it was also a thought-provoking experience to hear what others had to say. The whole idea was to create dialogue that would invite others to think and question with us and get involved right where they are. I've realized it was a conversation about what life was expecting from us.

"It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life - daily and hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual."   
--- Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

I invite you to meet nine Berrett-Koehler authors and  LISTEN IN to PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY: It's Role in Creating a Better World and let me know what you think!

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
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There are meaning-full moments one doesn't forget. Especially, those where you get to both, witness and personally experience, some pioneering first. So it was with the Habitat Jam, a groundbreaking online dialogue that brought 39,000 people from 158 countries together for an historic 72-hours as a preparatory event for the World Urban Forum III. The visionary idea came to life through an innovative partnership of the UN-Habitat, the Government of Canada and IBM. IBM's JAM technology and a multi-talented team that made it possible for tens of thousands of global citizens, rich and poor alike, to come together in the largest ever public dialogue at the Habitat JAM last December. The ultimate goal was turning ideas into action for six of the most critical issues of urban sustainability.

During the Habitat Jam, I remember some provocative discussions and some of the questions that were raised about how we could engage others and whether or not the dialogue would really be turned into action. One exchange I remember went like this (excerpts from the Habitat Jam):

I RAISED A FEW QUESTIONS:
Don't you think that the "whole is greater than the sum of the parts?" Hence, rather than focusing on the limits per se of government, business, or the nonprofit sector, why not focus on enhancing the relationships between them? For example, isn't "good government" really more about "partnership" rather than "partisanship?" The future of cities (and humanity, for that matter) will require more people to span the boundaries, i.e., limits, and forge meaningful relationships between people, organizations, nation-states, and so forth. Do you agree?

How can we get shareholders, i.e., "people," to commit to meaningful values and goals, rather than simply pursue the will to money? Don't you think that a dialogue on "humanity" should presume that people are not simply mice looking for more cheese?! In other words, what makes us "humans" and how can we tap into the human spirit so that we can effect meaningful change on an authentic, deeper level? Isn't punishing shareholders (like rewarding them) like putting on a small bandage on a large wound? And, more importantly, aren't these conventional approaches to behavioral change somewhat "de-humanizing?" Food-for-thought!

BRIAN ANSWERED: 
I believe getting people involved is a fairly complex process that takes time. Two of the primary motivators I've seen as most successful have been the successful creation of images and hope. Images whether with pictures or word create something concrete that people can understand. Most people are attracted to symbols of hope.

IVANA CHIMED IN:
I suppose if we knew answers to your questions we would not have reached the point we are facing now. I suppose that one of the goals of this JAM is to discover how to handle the problems we face today. However, my answer might lie in the fact that there are many enthusiastic individuals that are concerned for our environment. They usually act in their community, sometimes being misunderstood and rejected. What if we create a strong network for those individuals - for mutual support and exchange of ideas and experiences... But perhaps this is what JAM is all about! I am very interested in the outcome of it!

I OFFERED UP IDEAS AND ASKED NEW QUESTIONS:
Indeed, I hope that we're all interested in the outcome(s) of the JAM and, most importantly, don't allow the positive energy and "synergies" that are developing as a result of this dynamic process to end. When I refer to the notion of "meaningful sustainability," I'm also applying it to the human dimension, that is, sustaining the meaning-full connections between all members of our broadly-defined "community of stakeholders." In this connection (no pun intended), how do we ensure that the participants in this JAM remain meaningfully engaged in the process after the JAM closes? What recommendations might we offer to the JAM organizers and those planning the 3rd World Urban Forum to keep the connections alive? The JAM is offering the world a unique opportunity to participate in a transparent and authentic process for the sharing of ideas. Now that the window of opportunity has been opened, what can we do, both individually and collectively, to prevent it from closing?

THE REST OF THE STORY

"I wish to stress that the true meaning of life is to be discovered in the world
rather than within man ..."  --- Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Well, indeed, the dialogue that started at the Habitat Jam mattered. It resulted in over 4000 pages of dialogue, reports from outreach activities and a list of 600 potential ideas. From those ideas 70 exemplary ideas, which were selected because they were  practical, represented ideas from various parts of the world, had relevance to the World Urban Forum 3 agenda, and held promise for having high impact on urban problems.

Learn more about the Habitat Jam and World Forum 3, as well as, the forum results and the innovative follow-on work underway, particularly the Global Urban Sustainability Solutions Exchange. It was particularly meaning-full to meet up with Charles Kelly, Debbe Kennedy and KSFR host Diego Mulligan on THE JOURNEY HOME to share the REST OF THE STORY. I invite you to listen in and also to learn more about the Habitat Jam and World Forum 3 results.

Let me know what you think?
What could we do to bring more people into the dialogue?
Would you like to participate in a JAM?

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
Santa Fe, NM USA  www.themeaningdifference.com

Visit me at my "virtual office at the Global Dialogue Center www.globaldialoguecenter.com/alexpattakos

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The LABYRINTH is Like Life

Because of my Greek family heritage, I've always been fascinated with the Cretan labyrinth, a classical seven-circuit labyrinth dating back more than 4000 years ago. Learn more.

In the Middle Ages, there was a period of rebirth of the labyrinth that brought a new more complex design than the Cretan seven-circuit. One of the oldest remaining labyrinths in the world that came during this time of renewed interest is at the Chartres Cathedral near Paris. Built around 1200, it is one of the ancient eleven-circuit designs, divided into four quadrants. See it and learn more about its history.

The historic labyrinth became meaningful to me, because I saw its close connection to the journey of life itself. A favorite chapter in my book, Prisoners of Our Thoughts, is entitled Labyrinths of Meaning. It is there that I introduce how a labyrinth is like life:

"A labyrinth is not a maze. It is not a puzzle to be solved but a path of meaning to be experienced. Its path is circular and convoluted but it has no dead ends. When we walk the path, we go around short curves and long curves; sometimes we are out on the edge, sometimes we circle around the center. We are never really lost, but we can never quite see where we are going. Along the path we sometimes move forward with ease and confidence; sometimes we creep ahead cautiously; sometimes we find the need to stop and reflect; and sometimes we even feel the urge to retreat.

In so many ways, the labyrinth is like life. The center is there but our path takes us through countless twists and turns. Sometimes we are at the heart of our life experiences, sometimes we are at a playful turn, sometimes we share our path with others, sometimes we don't. No matter what, we are still on the labyrinth. It holds all our experiences in life and in work."

The labyrinth is also a metaphor for what is sacred in our lives. Through its twists and turns, its ancient spaciousness holds everything we experience---our minds and emotions, our physical beings and our spirits, our losses and our gains, our successes and our failures, our joys and our sorrows.  When we walk the path inward, we carry our burdens with us. When we meditate or pray in the center, we ask for grace, forgiveness, and understanding. When we walk the path outward, we are lighter, more joyful and ready yet again to take on life's challenges. As my teacher and mentor, Viktor Frank said...

"I wish to stress that the true meaning of life is to be discovered in the world rather than within man or his own psyche, as though it were a closed system."

Where has the labyrinth of life taken you?

What moments of meaning mark your path?

These are meaning-full questions to ask yourself. Have I piqued your interest? If so, I invite you to learn more about discovering deeper meaning on your personal journey in my book---and of course, I welcome hearing from you.

All the best,
Alex 

Alex Pattakos, Ph.D.
author, Prisoners of Our Thoughts
founder, Center for Meaning
Santa Fe, NM USA  www.themeaningdifference.com

Visit me at my "virtual office at the Global Dialogue Center www.globaldialoguecenter.com/alexpattakos