Some years back, I had the honor of spending time with Sue Swenson (former President and CEO, Cellular One (currently COO with T-Mobile) to interview her for a book series I was writing. She was amazing in many ways. Her stories come to mind often and have influenced many people. Today, I suppose in needed a reminder, I share an excerpt from one of her very special messages to us all:
"Early in my leadership career, I worked for a man who told me to cut my hair and change my name---and that I would never be successful unless I had this certain appearance. This went against my grain. His message was that I was being judged on my external appearance---not on what I brought to the organization or my leadership ability. At that moment, I certainly wondered if I was going to be a fit in that company. Fortunately, soon after, in came the new boss, who shared common values with me. Problem solved. However, the lesson I learned from it stayed with me. I once saw a license plate that said it all: B WHO U R. If you try to be somebody, or something, other than what you are, you are always having to think about it---and put energy into it, instead of directing your energy toward the constructive purpose calling for your full attention. When you are not distracted, you can be much more effective." Excerpt from book: Acceptance: Developing Support for Change, Be Who You Are by Debbe Kennedy
What have you learned about being who you are?
Debbe Kennedy
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