I see women demonstrate that they think ASSERTIVE, sometimes HARSH, actions are a show of strength as a leader. Ancient wisdom suggests otherwise. I read (The Tao of Personal Leadership by Diane Dreher) that leaders of the Tao draw on a power much great than the stereotyped strength of celluloid heroes society has somehow learned to admire. Dianne wrote that these flashy, tough, emothionally repressed, and ultimately unreal characters. "Real strength is strength of character."
In my own career, I learned from early mistakes that there was power in being kind, gentle, respect, transcending difficulty to create new possibilities. Interesting, the lessons were further imprinted by being "batted around" by a few women, who chose to model the more brutal approach to leadership. I learned most of all, I didn't want to inflict on others what their rath did on me. In reflection, they were sad characters.
It is perhaps our most feminine qualities that come as strength when they are partnered with our values, a forgiving and understanding heart, and good intentions.
What do you think? Let me know...
Debbe
Debbe Kennedy
Author and founder, Global Dialogue Center
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